Man that's annoying!
Ok, judging by the lights (which look red and blue to me), it works like this:
Red light constant: nobody there
Red light flashing: passenger present, seat belt undone
Blue light constant: passenger present, seat belt done up correctly
I come to this conclusion because (ignoring the erroneous left seat) when your son moved into the middle seat the middle icon began flashing red until he did up his seat belt, and then the icon turned blue.
I would have put this down to the weight sensors but after watching the whole video and seeing the errors as your son moved back to the left, I'm wondering if it's:
1) A possible logic error (fault) in the unit responsible for monitoring the seat belts. I don't know where that is in these models.
2) A wiring fault (like an earth fault). Now as for where this is, nobody could say exactly, except for some history: for some reason unfathomable to me, Nissan used to share the earth between the stereo and the instrument cluster. This used to cause all sorts of problems when the stereo earth started to muck up (corrosion? Loose?) and the stereo began to try earthing through the instrument cluster, causing weird things to happen.
The fix for that was always to add an earth wire to the side of the stereo (which should be earthed anyway). The instrument cluster would come good.
Now you could try that - it's especially important to try it if you've changed the head unit - or you could examine the connections and wiring looms for the rear seats, which may also have an earth problem (it has to be something common for this to occur). If there's any wiring back there that is supposed to connect to the body, try undoing that connection and cleaning it.