The ECM is the "Engine Control Module".
Is yours an auto? Your garage doesn't indicate either way. If it is, do you use your left foot to brake (which is illegal as far as I know anyway, but LOTS of people do it) ?
You might be depressing the brake accidentally which will immediately disconnect the cruise control. The brake pedal switch might also be loose/faulty and that could be the cause. You could try getting someone to follow you and see if the brake lights come on but a very quick flick as the switch shorts and disconnects may not be enough for the tail-light globes to get hot enough to light up, but will still disconnect the cruise control.