The ECU is located on top of the transmission hump under the dash. Should be able to find earth cables from there hopefully. I installed a remapped ECU and it only took 15 mins so pretty easy to reach
Problem solved.....the 3 earth terminals located on top of the manifold were weathered. I took them all off and cleaned them and put back.......issue has gone away.......strange that a simple terminal clean can make such a difference.....weird. Thanks....good site.